Friday, November 8, 2013

Aussie Shenanigans

Alex and the Sheep
           So, here is the end of my first week alone with the boys. Let me tell you... god bless anyone who has twins especially boys haha. Totally kidding, well kind of. I love the boys we have such a great time and they really have adjusted well to a new Au Pair just all the sudden showing up and taking care of them 5 days a week, 9 hours each day. The best feeling though is that they have already formed an attachment to me. Today, when I brought them to Kindergarten Lachlan held on to my leg and literally would not let me leave. I had to quickly leave and he cried, but in the end he had a great day at kinder.  OR when the boys get in a screaming fight about who I am going to let sit on my lap or carry to the car. It is a really great feeling to see it. We have great days together they love when I read book to them and they love animals even more than that. Our big excursion this week was to the Children's farm. Wow, I think I was more fascinated by the animals then them... well not quite, but close. I saw a peacock for the first time. Unfortunately, there was no Koalas or Kangaroos I still have yet to see either. No worries though its definitely on the priority list. Anyways, the farm wasn't all rainbows and unicorns either because getting there was as difficult as nailing jelly to a tree. Seriously, I had typed the address in the GPS, I was so excited so were the boys and a few Kilometers from the house the GPS decided to S*** the bed (excuse my language, but it was so stressful). Okay, so driving on the left side of the road whatever thats super easy, but driving in a place you are not familiar with without a GPS is not easy. I didn't know what to do so I drove back to the house, at this point Alex was asleep thank god because it probably would of been a meltdown and Lachlan was awake, but he was very patient about it. He simply asked "Jayne, why are we lost? Why don't you know where to go? Why do you live in another country?" Because none of my answers seemed to cure his curiosity. Anyways, at the house I typed it into my iPhone and my iPhone didn't have a international sim card at the time. I used the wifi at the house to get the route, but if I took one wrong turn I would of been in trouble because it wouldn't of been able to reroute me without wifi. So, I finally made it to the farm and spent a bit of time there. I can't wait till I know my way around better. When it was time to make the trek home I had to ask the front office at the farm how to get back to North Balwyn. It was actually embarrassing because I just hate to seem like such a stupid tourist who gets lost. This really nice guy helped me out buy sharing his wifi password to give me wifi to get me back home.  The worst part is though, I took a wrong turn on the way home so I had to figure out on my own how to get back on the route and at the same time Alex is screaming for a granola bar. I pulled over helped Alex and found my way back, let me tell you I was never as excited as I was to be at the house when we arrived. That was my huge adventure this week. It has been really nice they boys are hard work, but don't get me wrong I already love them and their teacher at kinder told me they have a new level of energy and she believed it was because of me. So nice to hear promising words like that.  I am spending 6 months with these boys they really will do a lot of growing up in that time and I cannot wait to be apart of it. It seems stupid, but already this week I think I have done a lot of changing as well. You have to grow up fast when you are looking after two, three year old boys and having the responsibility of driving them places, entertaining them all day, and thinking on the spot. Thinking on the spot is HUGE. You have to be creative, very creative especially when you are trying to get them to eat. I have worked with a lot of different kinds of children, but no children this young. It is a different experience. In conclusion though I love the boys, anyone would tell you they are so funny and creative. Seeing them together is adorable. I don't wish for any other family to be an Au Pair for, I love the boys, Lucy and Adrian a lot.
Me and the Boys

Me and Anika 
Me at the Melbourne Cup
      Anyways, for my life aside from the boys here..hmmm. Well, the other day at the playground in a matter of two minutes of just talking to the boys this guy picked up on my accent and instantly knew I was from the states. He comes up to me and goes " So, where in the states are you from?" Crazy to think my accent is that noticeable to them. Also, just bought my ticket to Sydney to visit my friend Liam for his birthday which is very exciting. I am in the travel mood being here. I am going to see a travel agent Sunday to book a trip to the Great Barrier Reef in April. I'm thinking about making it out to New Zealand at some point. I have a friend there who offered me a place to stay. Thats always nice. I met my first set of other Au Pairs Sunday, one from Arkansas and the other from Sweden. We had a plan to go to the Melbourne Zoo, but of course it started to rain. Tomorrow, I am meeting up with them again to go to a museum and then at night go out. Its just a little bit exciting to be legal to drink here. Just being offered wine at dinner and being able to say yes is so different. It feels like I'm doing something wrong because in the U.S I am not at all legal. So tomorrow will be a good night out in the city, hopefully a good blog story will come out of it. OH MY GOSH, I almost forgot to write about the biggest part of my week.. the Melbourne Cup. The Melbourne cup is like the Kentucky Derby... I think honestly I just know that the Kentucky derby also has horse racing. The Melbourne cup almost seemed like it was more about the fashion/drinking more than the horse racing. Literally, best part of being there was looking at what everyone was wearing.  The uniform is an old fashioned looking hat or hairpiece and a black dress.It was such a hot day 27C and 80F, I wanted to bet on a horse but honestly had no idea how. Its such a big deal here and I am so glad I went. It was a ton of fun. The Melbourne Cup is such a big deal here it is actually considered a Holiday. No one goes to work, how insane is that. By the way we are moving this month too. So, I asked Lucy and Adrian why we were moving... "oh because we are bored with the house" haha. It is like the nicest house. By the way, I am going to introduce thanksgiving to Australia. We are planning feast here at the Brennan household on Thanksgiving. We are going to the store and I am finding everything Thanksgiving-like and we are cooking it up. Hallelujah, I am not missing one more Thanksgiving :)  Back on track though, we are just moving close by and Alex has to get his tonsils and adenoids out in the beginning of December. A lot of changes are about to happen and I think it will be tough for the boys, but we shall see. Summer is just beginning so really no complaints here. That is all I have for this week, just loving my life in a land down under called Aus <3

Horse Racing



Thursday, October 31, 2013

Left Side Driving, Vegemite and Other Aussie Things

        My journey has just begun and week one of my 7 month adventure is coming to an end. This will probably be the most overwhelming week I have during these 7 months. So, as I was trying to kill the 6 hours I had in LA I met a ton of cool people. First, I met an Australian guy who was on holiday (yes, holiday instead of vacation... I have already started using Australian lingo). He was very nice and was telling me everything I needed to do in Melbourne and most importantly teaching me how to say Melbourne correctly.. Not MEL-BORN its more like MEL-BIN and Brisbane isn't BRIS-BANE its BRIS-BIN. Anyways, the second person I met was at the phone charging station at my gate. We sat there for a few minutes in silence then he asked me what I was doing and where I was from. I explained I was from Maine and going to Melbourne to be an Au Pair, I then asked his story because I knew he was definitely American too. He was from Pennsylvania and he was going to Australia for 5 months to do mission work through a group program.  It seemed like such a small world to me when I met another person from a State close to Maine who also has an adventurous personality and is leaving on the same day as me to begin the journey. We instantly became friends and promised to keep in touch on Facebook about our travels. I saw him meet other people for the first time that were in the same mission program as him; he had already started to talk to them through a Facebook group before this day. This made me very jealous to see them meet because I remember meeting all the other exchange students in Miami on our way to live in Ecuador, it was so exciting. Shout out to all the exchange students I love you guys and miss you very much :) Anyways, I met many more people along the way who were so friendly and loved hearing my travel plans, but really the details are boring. The bottom line is Australians are very welcoming and I instantly made friends with  many Australians beginning in Los Angeles. The flight was a drag. It was long and you just feel disgusting eating food without really moving after, but it was definitely worth it now that I get to enjoy 7 months in this amazing country filled with even more amazing people.
I spy Australia for the First Time


First Time in the City
       When I arrived in Melbourne Lucy and Anika were right outside my gate waiting for me. It was so nice to finally meet them after Skyping them both and waiting for this day for a long time. The first thing that happened that really made me realize I wasn't in America anymore was when I tried to get on the drivers side on the way home from the airport. The most exciting part though was finally arriving at my new home. I was so incredibly tired, but I stayed up until 9pm to start my sleep schedule off right. My jetlag was very minor after the day I arrived.The house is amazing, I have my own room and bathroom. A very nice pool and an even nicer car to drive. Most Importantly though I met Alex and Lachlan. They seemed very confused at first why I was there, but they quickly warmed up to me. They are both very cute and although they have their three year old bratty moments I can already tell I will become very attached to them both as well as Lucy and Adrian. They definitely make me feel like part of the family. Sunday, we went out to dinner and I met Lucy's parents, her brother and his partner.  Which, by the way I ordered a pizza called the Aussie.. I felt like I needed to begin my cultural eating right away.The family is all very amazing, I really feel like I am at my second home. Going back to my cultural eating though, I ate vegemite...not for the first time, but for the first time actually in Australia. It is very good my one and only tip is put very little its strong. So, basically this week Anika has been showing me everything; how to get places, cool places to bring the boys, and just everything you would need to know to live in Melbourne and be an Au Pair. I am very thankful she is here for my first week. She is also very amazing, it sucks that I can only spend this week with her because she is my first friend that I have made in Melbourne. She is great with the boys and has really taught me a lot of tricks for working with the boys. So far I have only been to the city once because I live in a suburb of Melbourne, but I already really enjoy it. There is plenty of shopping (yayyyyy!) and things to do there. Anika and I ate sushi and she tried to explain how to use the tram. It is so difficult being from Brunswick, Maine where public transportation is very simple and coming here to a tram system. Anyways, its only the first week and I know things will all get easier. 
My new Pool

         Today, Its halloween and you would not even know it. No one really cares. Trick or treating happens, but not often. Its more about going to a club and partying. Kids are not taught what halloween is or anything like that. Although this is sad to me, the red sox just won the world series! I hate baseball, but I am very happy for Boston because it has been a tough year there. BOSTON STRONG! Last thing I wanted to share this week is  how my driving lessons went. The driving on the other side is really not that hard once you try it. You just always have to tell yourself you need to be on the left side of the road, I would say the hardest part is remembering to look the other way for approaching cars. Again though, being from Brunswick, Maine then coming here and driving is hard. It may be a suburb where I live, but there is roundabouts and things I have never experienced in Maine. It will all come with time and practice though. I am looking forward to the next few weeks when I will start to handle the boys on my own and really become familiar with everything. There is a lot of changes from living in Brunswick to living here, but they are all exciting. I am already loving it. I am so excited to live and travel in this country for the next 7 months, it is only just the beginning <3
The Boys; Alex in red, Lachlan in blue  

Thursday, October 24, 2013

And so it Begins...


Today is the day, the day I have been waiting for.  If you have ever heard anyone talking about having the “travel bug” this bug is real. I am talking from experience. I began my journey to Ecuador August 30th, 2012 and returned in January 2013. I lived with a host family in Quito, the capital city and went to school like a normal Ecuadorian 17 year old would. I met other Exchange students from America and Europe that embarked on the journey with me and I met Ecuadorians that welcomed me into their country.  Every single person I met was amazing. You would think after spending 5 months away from home I would be ready to stay home for more than a year, but no. I had an amazing time and I wanted to travel more. I could bore you with details about my trip to Ecuador, but really this blog is about my trip to Australia. As I was getting ready to depart for Australia the common question people asked me was how you go about becoming an Au Pair in Australia. When I decided I wanted to travel again I knew I wanted to have a working holiday because of the expenses traveling includes. This obviously means I’m living in another country, but I am still working. I soon realized the best job for me was to be an Au Pair because I love working with children, it is a very rewarding job especially when you really get to know the kids. In the near future I hope to pursue a career in elementary education. Knowing ahead of time I wanted to go to Australia (who wouldn’t?) I searched online “Au Pair in Australia”. Au Pair is a French word that basically means an exchange. I am watching a families kid’s and they are providing me with a place to stay, food to eat, and a car to drive. I got lucky. I picked a newer program and immediately set up a date to Skype Lucy (the founder of the program aupairtoyou) and this was all very exciting. The night we Skyped I told Lucy I wanted to come in January so I could make a fair amount of money before going, she said okay and explained she would be searching for a family for me. 10 minutes after the interview ended I received an email from the owner of the program, Lucy. She stated she had two 3-year-old twin boys and that they needed an Au Pair by the end of next month and that she would like me to be their Au Pair. I thought about it for a few days and decided I would be dumb if I turned this opportunity down and I quickly emailed her back telling her I was in! Now, here I am sitting on the plane to LA from Philly (I'm sitting near two Mainers) and I began my journey in Boston. I started off my trip by almost making an attractive man miss his flight because my bag had to get searched (oh boy its going to be a long trip). I am very tired from waking up at 5am, but I am very excited to meet my little munchkins, Alex and Lachlan. It is only hour 4 out of 38, good luck to me! 
Lots and lots of waiting today.